I’ve finished traveling, for a while, and over the course of my time in America visited some amazing places, seen some impressive & world famous: buildings / skylines / art etc, and had experiences that will stay with me for the rest of my life. Yet it is very hard for me to say what my favourite thing is.
Instead, I keep on returning to the people I have met. (And I’m not just referring to Americans here, though they certainly feature). Traveling is awesome. The world is full of brilliant people, and traveling allows you to sample a diverse range of them. Conversations can be so rich in nature and many give you their time, share their stories and their lives with you after only the briefest of introductions – it is a real privilege. As somebody said in Toronto of the whole traveling thing: ‘it’s the people that make it’.
I know that if I’m in Washington DC again, I’ve got a place to stay. Ditto Brazil, ditto Ohio, ditto Toronto, and China. And likewise, if these people are in the Southwest of England, then I’d happily put them up.
In Boston I had a delightful time with a Spaniard & and Canadian, meandering around the streets, complaining about how sweet the food was & marveling at how cheap the market was. An encounter in Boston also reinforced just how ‘new’ America is – two college students ( from California & Florida ) were gushing in amazement over the fact there were cobbles & everything was so ‘old’. I had to laugh, and explain to my fellow travellers that my village was older than America.
New York was a bit of a blur, but the Germans & Dutch guy were a great crowd to hang out with. Plus the ferry tour guide was, well, mad. In Philadelphia instead of watching Les Mis ( I’m sorry but the screen version is the stage’s poorer cousin ) I spent hours chatting with a Canadian who was studying for a PhD in Government at LSE. We talked about her research, UK & Canadian Politics, civil servants ( she was a Canadian civil servant with her fees being paid by her government ) student calling, the EU, the LSE-BBC affair and what I should do in Toronto. Hopefully we’ll go for coffee in London.
Also in Philadelphia, I found some good company in the form of a Brazilian who was here for an academic conference. Up until Philadelphia I had been going to museums on my own, so when we visited the Museum of Art & took Rocky pictures (even though neither of us had seen the film) it was enjoyable to complain about the art to an actual human being instead of using voices in my head…
Also, we suffered together – trying a Philly Cheese Stake & most mornings waking up a little worse for wear… I also encountered a gentlemen called Tiberius, who had escaped from Romania in 1968. He was, er, interesting / eccentric. He gave me 3 tips ( not all helpful! ): 1. Save as many cents as you can, because you spend in dollars. 2. If you can keep a Czech girl, you can keep any. 3. Marry an intelligent woman, don’t just go for beauty as your kids will be stupid and you’ll despair !
Staying in DC, I have had the delightful company of many interesting people. I arrived back to the hostel on my second day to see a posse of scouts & a wall of noise hit me. Luckily, that was just initial excitement & when you have been on a coach for 7ish hours ( they had come from MA ) you need to let it off. Later that evening the leaders invited any and everyone to join them for dinner as they had made far too much food (meatballs & pasta). I joined them & they were really friendly & it was great to talk about Boston, and what else I should do on my trip!
I had an enjoyable encounter with an American, who out of the blue paid for my meal ( read about it here ). I met another Phd student, also on a research trip, looking at 13th Century Chinese art. He was a lovely guy, but what was more amazing was that he spoke excellent Chinese – ( studied it at Cambridge & lived in Taiwan) the Chinese travelers and everybody else were agog – apparently even the throat sounds were correct & they were clapping him. Personally I was agog as his English had a soft Scottish burr & he didn’t fit a traditional stereotype! There was also an America in the hostel who spoke Chinese, but he had learnt his at a listening post in Taiwan in the late 60s….! Within this hostel mix, I also met retired librarian from Ohio called Jerry. He was pretty cool & a delight to talk to.
Attending an alumni event, I ended up making three new friends ( only one was a York grad! ) and we promptly drank most of the night away, along the way talking corgis, farm subsidies, Clinton for 2016 and what on earth ICAN is….
My Amtrak journey gave me the chance to talk to some more ‘typical’ Americans and I’m grateful for that. Chicago was fab, and I met Elliot – a Chinese student studying in Toronto. We had some great fun.
Mainly eating, but what is wrong with good food and conversation? And, I picked up some tips on how to take better pictures. We met up in Toronto, where he kindly invited me over to his apartment after giving me a tour of China town and beyond. He even offered to travel in China with me… ( very tempted!).
And so as I said on Facebook: North America, it was nice to meet you. I’ll be back.